A recognisable situation
A client talks fluently about all parts of an arrangement. On one subject he suddenly becomes quieter and gives brief answers. The professional does not conclude what that means. He simply says: "I notice this subject comes across differently. Is that correct?"
A question to consider
What could we better understand if we pause to consider that you speak differently about this subject?
In plain words
The way someone says something can be a signal that more attention is needed. The signal does not give you an answer, only a good reason to ask an open question.
The nuance
Never deduce intentions, lies or emotions from tone or silence alone. Use it only as a prompt to ask.
Explanation in own words at What truly moves people and the speaker's compass. Book p. 85; speaker's compass p. 22.
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