A recognisable situation
Two family members must work together again after a conflict to manage a property. Instead of immediately placing all responsibility on one person, they start with a small, manageable task. If that goes well, the next step can be larger.
A question to consider
What small step can you take to build trust without risking everything right away?
In plain words
Trust is not a light switch with only on or off. You can start with a limited agreement, see how it goes, and then decide again.
The nuance
Do not make caution into detachment. The goal is to let trust grow where possible.
Explanation in own words at What truly moves people and the speakers’ compass. Book p. 97; speakers’ compass p. 25.
Practice this insight