A recognisable situation
Someone thinks about starting their own business and immediately tells ten people. Even before they have fully developed their idea, they receive ten fears and twenty pieces of advice in return. They begin to doubt a plan they have barely been able to explore themselves.
A question to consider
What becomes stronger about your plan if you first develop it sufficiently before letting in reactions from others?
In plain words
There is a difference between asking for feedback and asking for permission. An idea may first become a bit stronger before everyone imposes their expectations on it.
The nuance
Never protect a plan when consultation is legally, financially or professionally necessary.
Explanation in own words at What truly moves people and the speaker compass. Book p. 69; speaker compass p. 18.
Practice this insight

